yes? no? is it? maybe? could be?
Thursday, March 17, 2005
what exactly are they looking for?
A steaming cup of coffee, cosy sofas and the company of a best friend is just a perfect way to unwind
after a crazy day at work. Conversation was light. Mostly catching up on what all had been happening
in the past four days when we didnt get a chance to talk. Work, family, happenings and friends is what
was talked about. He casually mentioned about being suddenly extremly friendly with this one girl eho he once
liked, who just broke up with her boyfriend and who is apparenly also going through PMS.
So why did he look so upset and unhappy?
On inquiring I found out that she calls up at all odd hours at night and wants to get into a long term relationship.
"Whats the issue?" I ask.
Ï still like her but dont want to commit."
On hearing this I realised how insane men can be. He was ok flirting, but didnt want to commit...didnt want to let go of her either.
Another fermale-settle down with her. "nahin, shes not my kind, shes just too nice."
"Too nice?" are you mad?
I am thinking just too much.
This another female we both know. What about her? Shes hot, shes nice, shes bitchy to a certain extent, career oriented,
educated...all is good. Whats with her? Hmm, shes good, but not wife material!
I just want to grab him and shake him. Where exactly is he thinking from? After he left, for a long while I was in the pensive modeWas I going insane or did he actually not make any sense? All these damn excuses...wants to flirt and enjoy but no question of settling down!
All the male species that i know of have similar issues! What exactly is the problem? I think "playing hard to get"is just the attitude that they should be given!
After lots more thinking I come to the conclusion that men generally are very insecure where commitment is concerned and therefore there is this whirlpool
of lousy excuses that they keep on struggling in!
Posted by Kat at
10:36 AM
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